દીકરીના લગ્ન પછી, ઘરમાં - જયંત પાઠક

દીકરીના લગ્ન પછી, ઘરમાં - જયંત પાઠક

આખરે ઉજાગરાનો અંત આવ્યો:
લગન ઊકલી ગયાં.

મા હવે
ઘરની ચીજવસ્તુઓ ગણે છે
સંભારી સંભારી મેળવે છે
સંભાળી સંભાળી ગોઠ્વે છે:
થાળી, વાડકા, ગ્લાસ, ડિશ-
બધું બરાબર છે
ક્યાંય કશુંય ખોવાયું નથી
કશુંય ગયું નથી-
પણ
અચાનક કંઈક યાદ આવતાં
એ ઓરડા વચ્ચે
ઊભી રહી જાય છે
આંખોમાંથી ટપકું ટપકું થાય છે
ખારો ખારો પ્રશ્ન :
'મારી દીકરી ક્યાં ?'

रिश्ते बस रिश्ते होते हैं

रिश्ते बस रिश्ते होते हैं
कुछ इक पल के
कुछ दो पल के

कुछ परों से हल्के होते हैं
बरसों के तले चलते-चलते
भारी-भरकम हो जाते हैं

कुछ भारी-भरकम बर्फ़ के-से
बरसों के तले गलते-गलते
हलके-फुलके हो जाते हैं

नाम होते हैं रिश्तों के
कुछ रिश्ते नाम के होते हैं

रिश्ता वह अगर मर जाये भी
बस नाम से जीना होता

 

માણસ કેમ આટલો જલદી ફૂટી જતો હશે !

ક્યારેક
કુંભાર પણ
મૂછમાં હસતો હશે
કે
માટલાંને
ટકોરા મારીને ચકાસતો
માણસ
કેમ
આટલો જલદી
ફૂટી જતો હશે !

यह मिट्टी

मिट्टी का मूल्य,

तु्म तब समझोगे ,

जब मृत-तन को,

मिट्टी में ही बदल देगी,

यह मिट्टी ।

 

Hardwork

An entrepreneur works day in and day out to make his startup or small enterprise work. The hard work which is put in and the time and effort invested in the right direction always pay off well. The key is to have patience and be motivated. There is nothing which is not possible with hard work being on your side. Hard work will always help you win battles and will make you more wise. With every failure one traverses the path of success.

Ambition

Hard work without any ambition is like walking without any destination. Have a goal, an ambition and work towards it. Thomas Alva Edison, the famous scientist and inventor invented light bulb after failing 1000 times. He attempted and he attempted till the time he succeeded. This should be the dedication, the determination and the commitment towards your work. Success is not far then. 

Time Management

Managing time is the most difficult thing and there are volumes of research being done and books being written in this area. How many times do we say that we were short of time that is the reason a deadline was not met. Or else we don't get enough time to exercise or for jogging. This happens because we are not able to manage our time. Time allocation is very important when you want do several things. This will help you do more work in less time. 

Prioritize

Always prioritize you work. Most important and urgent things first, urgent and less important things second, important but less urgent things third and lastly go for not important and not urgent things. This will help you make your to-do list and will make sure that you will be able to finish your tasks fully by the end of the day. 

Struggle

While putting in these many efforts at times you will feel that all of your efforts are not giving out expected results. You might feel disheartened but the crux is that every single bit you do will help you learn more and your struggle and aggression to achieve will help you to succeed. 

Win-Win Attitude

You will have to be sure within yourself that you will be able to finish whichever task you take up. If you have doubts on yourself then no one will trust you. You should have that confidence that when you do a job you will be able to do it fully. You have to win and there is no scope of failure till the time you start doubting yourself. You are going to win and that is for sure. Go ahead and touch the sky. 

Organization Behavior

Make sure that the people whom you discuss your answers or your notes are the people who have positive attitude and faith in you. The place around you, the organisation you work for, the school or university you go to should have people who are supportive, who believe in success and who promote hard work. 

There is no other alternative to hard work, no shortcuts to hard work, you have to perform well to succeed and nothing else can change the path to success.

 

HOW TO EXCEL IN THE EXAMINATION:

When it comes to exams, we all must have observed a trend that a student who has a lot of knowledge is not able to perform well in exams. Classmates and friends also share the same feeling, that a particular student is good in studies but not great in getting scores.

 Fear of exam

Fear of the exam is one thing which erases half of the memory. A good student before entering the examination hall starts having anxiety and few suffer from hunger pangs as well. The fear in the mind of forgetting everything is a great obstruction.

 Be calm

Always remember that if you panic then you will be at loss. If you will stay calm then you will excel. So ultimately you are the person who will suffer or excel. Therefore why not be calm and do well. Being calm will make you relax and reduce your anxiety levels.

 Don't listen to anyone just before the exam

You can always find some scholars in the class who have always studied extra. Just before the exam they will hit you with so many questions, of which you will not have any answers. Questions will be irrelevant and maybe out of context, but they will be enough to confuse you or scare you.

 Only revision on the last day, and no mugging in the morning

Always remember one thing that last day one should only revise the things studied so far, or simply practice questions or sample papers. Never do the mistake of starting something new. This is because if you start afresh with a new thing and are not able to finish it on time then you will panic and get scared. Next morning the last thing you remember will be that topic only. Revision is very important as that will make you feel confident from within. Relax in the morning, have a light breakfast and don't talk to any friend who is stressed or who might make you stress out.

Read the question paper thoroughly and try to follow the sequence as that makes an examiner check your paper in one go. Highlight your pointers, use black ink wherever necessary, underline important things and don't colour the sheet a lot. Provide bullets in your answer and don't make it very descriptive

List of MBA Entrance Tests

 

તે મને શીખવ

તે મને શીખવ
હે પ્રભુ,
સંજોગો વિકટ હોય ત્યારે,
સુંદર રીતે કેમ જીવવું?
તે મને શીખવ.

બધી બાબતો અવળી પડતી હોય ત્યારે,
હાસ્ય અને આનંદ કેમ ન ગુમાવવાં?
તે મને શીખવ.

પરિસ્થિતિ ગુસ્સો પ્રેરે તેવી હોય ત્યારે,
શાંતિ કેમ રાખવી?
તે મને શીખવ.

કામ અતિશય મુશ્કેલ લાગતું હોય ત્યારે,
ખંતથી તેમાં લાગ્યા કેમ રહેવું?
તે મને શીખવ.

કઠોર ટીકા ને નિંદાનો વરસાદ વરસે ત્યારે,
તેમાંથી મારા ખપનું ગ્રહણ કેમ કરી લેવું?
તે મને શીખવ.

પ્રલોભનો, પ્રશંસા, ખુશામતની વચ્ચે
તટસ્થ કેમ રહેવું?
ત મને શીખવ.

ચારે બાજુથી મુશ્કેલીઓ ઘેરી વળે,
શ્રધ્ધા ડગુમગુ થઈ જાય,
નિરાશાની ગર્તામાં મન ડૂબી જાય ત્યારે,
ધૈર્ય અને શાંતિથી તારી કૃપાની પ્રતીક્ષા કેમ કરવી?
તે મને શીખવ.

THOUGHTS OF NARENDRA MODI

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Date: 12 August 2010 12:23
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